Real or Made Up Victims

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Do you ever feel that something is wrong with you? Do you think that people are suppressing you or your lifestyle? Do you feel victimized? BUT, Are you victimized? 

Are you suppressed? OR is it just in your head?

Today, I will touch on the most sensitive nerve of people out there. This blog might make you offended but we have to talk about it. We have to talk about how people put themselves in the position of a victim. 

We all have done this in life. Being a victim or feeling like a victim in situations is normal just like every other thing but only till it is not a habit. Once you get used to feeling victimized, you will start feeling that everything is wrong. 

What exactly this victim culture is? Once you start blaming others for your situation and develop a sense of entitlement. A culture of blame-shifting, excuse-making, and self-pity. 

Do these terms feel familiar!!! You might have heard them around you or might have seen people with such traits. 


Victimhood culture is a mindset that people are day by day inculcating in their lives. A way of living that makes people get away from everything around them. Let us start by talking about the teenagers and the way they react in life. Now and then we all face a lot of stress in life. 

People in normal life tend to get away from all the problems, and mistakes we make but blaming others for our mistakes is something people are starting to do and this has made things bad. People do not want to take responsibility for their doings. People are so in a bubble that they are always right and everything wrong is because of the people around them. 

The most prevalent example of this victimhood is how minorities in society still live and present themselves as the weakest and unaddressed section of society whereas, from people to the government they all are recognized an dare given platforms. I am not saying that they were not suppressed!! They were!!! 

They were treated badly but now it has become a lifestyle for them. 

Just think of a kid who is not into studies and people in his family have always been okay with it, but one day when he is scolded by someone out of his family for his studies or someday he lacks behind his friends, that will be a day when he will start blaming his parents that him not studying is all because of family. 

I am a final-year graduating student and I see a lot of people around me who tend to do such things. I have seen people do nothing and then blame others for their own failures. 

People of the coming generations do not want to take responsibility even for their own actions. 

People nowadays are hungry for sympathy. People seek to feel the aura of sympathy from people around them. This is one of the major things that I have observed about people around me. 

There is a saying, in Hindi which translates to, if you cry or tell your sadness in front of someone, they will start telling you more of that. This phrase immediately connects us to the fact that if you are actually trying to gain sympathy from someone, beware they might tell you an issue of themselves that will force you to show sympathy to them.

Everyone is now focused on just keeping things away from their own lives which eventually leads to pushing them into others' space. 

When we talk about victim mentality or victimhood, it is important for us to talk about the Victor Mentality. A mindset that allows an individual to work hard no matter how many problems they have to face. A situation or a mindset where people work to achieve success and leave the problems behind them.


VICTOR MENTALITY is what we all should start to inculcate in ourselves and get away from the VICTIM MENTALITY that is been growing in the generations. 


Thank you for reading and I will be back soon with another interesting topic. 

Till then make sure to be a VICTOR not a VICTIM.

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