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Social Conditining

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We all talk about how we are born and brought up in our lives. It seems like a small thing but the way we are grown up matters a lot in our social build-up. Today, I want to talk about something that matters in our lives a lot 'Our social conditioning'. We will be talking about how we used to be conditioned in our parents' generations and probably how we are conditioned compared to the fact that kids nowadays are conditioned. First and foremost I would want to talk about the basic treatment of kids. In our times, when we were young, we were treated to be strong and we were left to do and learn small things on our own like climbing stairs, playing outside, sometimes getting dirty and our demands were not always fulfilled whereas nowadays kids are pampered.  I guess we all have heard this term and we have used it for kids who are always kept in a bubble. A soft protected bubble that has kept them in a cozy vibe that never bothered their living style. These pampered kids are n...

Real or Made Up Victims

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Do you ever feel that something is wrong with you? Do you think that people are suppressing you or your lifestyle? Do you feel victimized? BUT, Are you victimized?  Are you suppressed? OR is it just in your head? Today, I will touch on the most sensitive nerve of people out there. This blog might make you offended but we have to talk about it. We have to talk about how people put themselves in the position of a victim.  We all have done this in life. Being a victim or feeling like a victim in situations is normal just like every other thing but only till it is not a habit. Once you get used to feeling victimized, you will start feeling that everything is wrong.  What exactly this victim culture is? Once you start blaming others for your situation and develop a sense of entitlement. A culture of blame-shifting, excuse-making, and self-pity.  Do these terms feel familiar!!! You might have heard them around you or might have seen people with such traits.  Victimhoo...